and When I Die

There is much being said today about the celebration of life, how when most “go” they want to be remembered for the life they lived, and how the celebration of life should be remembered, such is my case as well BUT as selfish as it may seem I want someone to shed a tear that I am no longer with them, THEN have a glass in my honour.
Have I chosen cremation; I guess I better make up my mind soon, till then???